Saving a marriage becomes the first priority that you must handle if you feel like you are experiencing the difficulties in your married lives. Either your problem is just started or it has gone so far. Always remember that you are not alone. There are many couples out there who are facing with this exact situation that you may have encounter yourself in your marriage as well. This is why I think that it is important for me to share my experiences to all of you. It is totally from my own experiences that I had learned it through the relationship over ten years.